Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Birthday Boy

Before I jump into all the Halloween fun, I wanted to give a belated birthday shout out to my better half. I haven't done anything spectacular for the last few birthdays, so I thought this would be the year to make up for it. Last Monday (his actual birthday), we did a family party. We went to Krispy Kreme to have birthday donuts and open presents. Our neighbor, Lily, was able to participate in the festivities, too. I was impressed with the kids' ideas for his presents. Olivia got him football gloves, Sean bought him a game set that had a whole bunch of family games, Warren got him a NERF football, and David went practical and got him a new pair of jeans. My present to him was a new pair of glasses. This deserves a post of it's own, so more on that later. He was satisfied that his birthday was sufficiently celebrated, but there was more coming! I love surprises...especially when I'm in on them. My original intention was to have a surprise birthday party for him, but he doesn't really care about that kind of stuff, but I didn't have to think hard to know what he WOULD like. He still calls his friends on Friday nights to see if they can play Saturday morning flag football. I think it's cute, although I'm confident that's not why he does it. The turnout to Saturday morning football had been scarce the last few weeks, and I knew he would be itching to play again, so the Saturday before his birthday I delivered invitations to his buddies in the neighborhood for a game of flag football on Tuesday. Tuesday I wrapped his football clothes up in a gift bag, and delivered it to his desk, via his brother, Don. Under his clothes was a typed note that said:

CHURCH FIELD 5:30pm BE THERE!

I put a banner and birthday balloons on one of the benches (as if any of the guys noticed), and I was pleased that the perfect amount of guys showed up. Not too many, not too few. While they were playing, I went to get the food. I got chips and salsa from Chiles, sweet pork from The Smokehouse, and rolls. After the game, we all ate dinner together in the pavillion, then sang "Happy Birthday" and had cake. Darin loved it!!! I was so glad it was a successful surprise. The only problem is, I don't know how to top it. Maybe I don't have to. Maybe a game of flag football, not organized by him, would be o.k. with him every year.
Krispy Kreme:


Football festivities:
(Thanks, Tyler, for running over to the bench to get the banner and balloons)
And thanks, all the boys, for being torn away from your food long enough for me to take this picture...twice. When I tried to take it the first time, it said, "CANNOT RECORD". Apparently I hadn't put the memory card back in from the last use, so Chad (Dion) let us borrow his memory card.
The balloons escaped, and ended up on the ceiling of the pavillion.
Lily decorated the football cake:
And Olivia decorated the cupcakes:
I love how they are both wearing the football eyes in honor of Darin's special football day.
Happy Birthday, Darin!

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Be Prepared

This is a two part bad news/good news post about the importance of being prepared.



First the bad news. We had a scary experience Friday night as we were playing games at my parents' house. The adults were playing cards upstairs and the kids were downstairs playing and watching TV. As we were playing, we heard a LOUD series of crashes and glass breaking followed by screaming. My heart sank, I threw my cards on the table, and ran downstairs as fast as I could. I saw my parents' three section entertainment center on the ground. The TV, VCR, DVD player, all the DVDs and videos were on the ground, broken glass everywhere. Sean, Olivia, and their cousin Kirsten were all underneath. I did my best to lift enough of the entertainment center up so Sean could get out (Darin was there at this point. He lifted it up the rest of the way, and I pulled Sean out.) Olivia was able to crawl out. I heard Kirsten from the other side. I couldn't see her so I didn't even realize that she was there at first. She, too was able to get out safely. Other than being a little shaken up, all three kids were fine. As I sat on the rocking chair with Sean, and saw the aftermath I shook my head in disbelief, knowing that we were definitely protected from serious harm. My mind went to stories of kids being killed from falling TVs, and I knew that this could have easily been fatal. I felt so blessed that they were all safe, and I know that it wasn't just luck. Also not just luck was the fact that David was sleeping safely in a bedroom down the hall, and Warren had just come upstairs a few minutes before it happened. I also feel SO grateful that my parents' one and only concern was the safety of our children. After I knew everyone was o.k., I turned to my dad and said, "It looks like we owe you a TV." to which he replied, "You don't owe me a thing. I'm glad everyone is o.k, and it's much less expensive than a new barn." (When my dad was 5, he hosted a hot dog roast in the neighbor's haystack and started the barn on fire. It was destroyed.) Thankfully, we now have three little witnesses who will remind the other grandkids to follow the rules. (There are two little doors on each side of the entertainment center that are much too tempting not to play in. That proved to be the culprit of the fall.) We continue to feel very blessed, and feel like it is our responsibility to share our little story so it doesn't happen to you! Please talk to your kids about not climbing on or playing in entertainment centers, bookshelves, etc. and if you have tall furniture that could potentially fall, please secure it to the wall. The bad news portion of the post is over...on to the exciting portion of my post that still has a valuable lesson in being prepared.

Here's the background story. Thursday night we went on a date, and a girl in our neighborhood babysat for us. When she got here she told us that Benji, winner of "So You Think You Can Dance" was at her house. (Her dad was a mission president in Mexico when Benji was on his mission. Benji spent three weeks at their house recovering from an illness and got to know the family very well.) I was so excited, and we tried to go to their house to meet him, but he had just left. Joe, their son, assured us that next time he was over, they would let us know. Fast forward to the next evening. I had spent the day babysitting and cleaning, and it was the first and only time in over a month since I started exercising regularly that I didn't change out of my exercise shirt. I had also just waxed my eyebrows and upper lip, and my skin was bright red and it was stinging like crazy. In an attempt to soothe my skin, I put baby oil on the sore parts of my face. Paints quite a picture, doesn't it? I was talking to Keri on the phone, asking her if Jamee had had her baby yet and telling her that I doubted if the redness on my face would ever go away. I was just ready to hang up and get in the shower when Olivia ran up to my bedroom and announced that Amy had brought Benji by for us to meet. I panicked. I was not in a condition to meet anyone, let alone a celebrity. If I had been thinking clearly, I would have taken 30 seconds to wipe the greasy baby oil off my face and throw on some make-up, but alas, I was not thinking clearly, so I ran downstairs and outside. I was so embarrassed!!! He was so kind. He got out of the car, shook our hands, and chatted for a few minutes. I wanted to ask him all sorts of questions like what he had been up to, his coolest experience so far, will you show me some moves, etc. but my brain was so focused on the fact that I looked the way I did that I just stood there and let Darin ask the questions. AARGH!!! We got our picture taken with him, and he left. The moral of this story is...Be prepared, people! You never know when a celebrity will show up in your driveway! It was fun afterward to talk to Darin about his celebrity sightings. He said he has met Marie Osmond and Chuck Norris, and we sat next to Steve Young at Stake Conference when we were first married. I really don't have any other celebrity sightings to share, but I would love to hear yours! If you haven't seen "So You Think You Can Dance", you can go to YouTube and search for Benji Schwimmer. There are a ton of videos. The boy can move! Here is (some of) our family with Benji (Sean is hiding behind Darin's legs, and Warren was playing in the backyard).

Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Family Pictures

I was reading Jenny's blog yesterday about the inevitable scrapes and bruises that seem to magically appear just before family pictures. This reminded me of an unsuccessful photo shoot from two years ago (I was 5 months pregnant with David). My sister, Jodi, was taking our pictures for a family book. My main concern was that the boys wouldn't be looking and smiling, so naturally her attention was focused on them. Bumps and bruises had nothing to do with the fact that we couldn't use any of the photos for our project; rather it was a silly six year old girl who felt the need to sabotage the pictures for some reason. We didn't know she had done it until we got home and viewed the photos on the computer. This is what we saw:




Apparently she sensed the fact that she was being ignored. Lesson learned. For the record, we did have a picture to add to the family book for my parents. It was taken a few minutes later in a different location. I guess she just needed to get it out of her system.
p.s. Our original plan was to crop out the power lines and the big cement slab. As it turned out, we didn't need to worry about it.

Monday, October 15, 2007

Three Words

There are three words that describe what I'm craving in my life right now:

Priorities
This one is self explanitory. Work before play and all that good stuff.
Balance
As I attempt to juggle all my responsibilities and add some fun, it seems that one ball is always weighted a little heavier than the rest, and I seem to drop the rest, and end up scrambling to get them up in the air again. For a while, the blog ball was heavy, and my kids and my house suffered from lack of attention. Then I realized that my kids and my house needed the attention, and I failed to take proper care of myself (and post on my blog!). Then I realized that my body needs me to take care of it , and now that ball is the heavy one...but in the meantime, I have begun to learn that it is possible to give a little bit to everyone and everything, it just takes prioritizing! I have begun to see the beginnings of a balanced life as I have let go of striving for perfection in a given area, and have settled on the idea that just a little better is more than enough.
Consistency
I'm getting there! This is surely a process that will take a lifetime (and beyond). I am learning that there really is no magic in consistency. It's as simple as continuing to do the things that you want to have as a part of your life; day after day; even when you don't want to.
So there you have it. That's what's been on my brain lately. These three words are key for me.
If I start to slip into my non-balanced, non-consistent, non-prioritized life, it's back to the drawing board. But fortunately for me, the drawing board already has the answers, I just need to remind myself! It's good to be back on the blog, and to realize that it is now a more evenly weighted ball in my juggling act.

Friday, October 5, 2007

What do you get...

when you combine a big sister, her friend, a willing participant, and a box of dress up clothes?